Have you ever been betrayed?
Have you ever been lied to?
Have you ever tried accessing your ex's facebook account and found out their deep dark secret that includes you?
If you answered yes then you should meet my kuya (brother-in-law).
My kuya, Balbon (Not his real name hehehe), just recently found out that he's not the father of his 2-year old daughter. Some f*cked up sh*t right? So anyway, he's not here in the Philippines so he can't actually do anything about it but just to send hate mails to the ex-wife and post "i hate you f*cking b*atch" status on facebook (which I think is a little immature). I asked him what is he going to do about it and he keeps on answering me with "ewan ko, magulo utak ko ngayon (I don't know, I don't have a clear mind right now)". But he told me that he'll stop supporting the kid since he's not the father.
I told him that I'm not gonna give him any advise since this is all upto him, but I told him what I would do if it was me on that situation, I told him that I'd still be there for the kid. I just can't suddenly detach myself to somebody I've loved for so long and to someone so innocent as a 2-year old, I'd probably hate the ex-wife but I would still care for the kid. Then I asked him a follow up question, can he just forget about the kid? He answered 'No'. Then he changed his mind with the support decission and all. Now he's still in limbo about what's going on and it sucks knowing what he's going through since he's a really good guy.
I wanted my first blog post be about love. But reading what I wrote above seems that it's all about hate. Well, I wanted to tell my kuya that Loving should be unconditional especially when it involves family. But I want him to figure that out by himself, I know he would it will just take some time.
Gusto ko rin sabihin sa kanya, ang tanga tanga mo! di ka kasi nakikinig sa magulang mo! yan tuloy! Gago. (can't translate to english... too explicit! hahaha).
♥charmilou♥
"when i say chuk chak you say chenes... chuk chak..."
chenes!
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